| Abstract | Patrifokalne obitelji, kao oblik suvremenih obitelji, nailaze na različite probleme na koje drugi oblici obitelji ne nailaze. Samohrani očevi odgajaju svoju djecu, paralelno se suočavajući s osuđujućom okolinom i društvom koje im svakodnevno otežava. Mnoga istraživanja su dokazala da su očevi jednako dobri ili bolji roditelji nego majke, no društvo je i dalje orijentirano na majke kao primarne skrbnike i očeve zapostavlja. Mediji i istraživanja su posvećeni isključivo majkama i njihovim problemima, a podatke o samohranim očevima jedva da možemo pronaći. Također, mediji utječu na lošu sliku o roditeljima od rane dobi, plasirajući crtane filmove u kojima su očevi nerijetko prikazani u negativnom/smiješnom kontekstu. Jedni od pozitivnih utjecaja života s ocem su rani razvoj pismenosti, razvoj akademskih vještina i razvoj seksualnosti u adolescenciji. Potaknuta navedenim, provela sam istraživanje o stavovima društva o patrifokalnim obiteljima koje je opisano u ovome radu uključujući sva demografska obilježja (dob, spol, mjesto življenja, obitelj u kojoj su odrasli, obitelj u kojoj žive, imaju li djece) ispitanika kako bih utvrdila što utječe na negativno društveno mišljenje o samohranim očevima, ako isto postoji. Nakon provedenog istraživanja, došla sam do zaključka da su ispitanici svjesni postojanja predrasuda o samohranim očevima, a analizom ostalih pitanja upitnika možemo utvrditi da je mišljenje ispitanika o različitim aspektima očinstva podijeljeno. U drugom dijelu istraživanja provela sam intervju sa samohranim očevima i njihovom djecom, te sam utvrdila da su društveno mišljenje i manjak podrške najveći problemi s kojima su suočeni. Oba roditelja su zadovoljna odgojem svoje djece, a također oboje djece nemaju osjećaj kao da su nešto propustili jer ih je odgajao samohrani otac. |
| Abstract (english) | Patriarchal families, as a form of modern families, deal with different problems that other forms of family do not deal with. Single fathers raise their children, while confronting the convicting environment and society that makes their life much harder. Many research have proved that fathers are equally good or better parents than mothers, but society is still oriented to mothers as primary caregivers and fathers are neglected. Media and research are devoted exclusively to mothers and their problems, and data about single fathers is hard to find. Also, the media influence the poor image of single fathers from early age by broadcasting cartoons in which fathers often appear in a negative / ridiculous context. One of the positive impacts of life with the father is the early development of literacy, the development of academic skills and the development of sexuality in adolescence. As aforesaid, I have conducted a research on the views of the society about the patriarchal families described in this paper, including all demographic characteristics (age, gender, place of residence, family in which they grew up, the family in which they live, if they have children or not) of the respondents to determine what affects the negative social opinion has on single fathers, if it does at all. After the research, I came to the conclusion that the respondents were aware of the existence of prejudices against single fathers, and by analyzing other questions of the questionnaire, we can determine that the respondents' opinion on different aspects of paternity is divided. In the second part of my research, I conducted an interview with single fathers and their children, and I found that social thinking and lack of support are the biggest problem they are faced with. Both parents are happy with the upbringing of their children, and both children do not feel as they missed on something because they were raised by a single father. |
