| Sažetak | Teorija privrženosti ističe važnost ranih, bliskih odnosa djeteta s majkom, kao i drugih bliskih odnosa, za što bolje djetetovo funkcioniranje, kako u djetinjstvu, tako i u mladenaštvu. Za to je potreban razvoj sigurne privrženosti, koja je rezultat primjerenog reagiranja roditelja na djetetove potrebe, ljubavi, pažnje, nježnosti, podrške, zaštite i komunikacije roditelja i djeteta. Istraživanja pokazuju povezanost ranih odnosa s roditeljima s razvojem nasilnog ponašanja kod djece i mladih. Djeca koja nisu razvila sigurnu privrženost sa svojim roditeljima ili jednim roditeljem, češće pokazuju nasilna ponašanja u interakciji sa svojim vršnjacima i okolinom. U definiciji nasilnog ponašanja vidljivo je rješavanje sukoba i problema agresivnošću, što može biti povezano s ranim odnosom djeteta i roditelja. Djeca koja nisu naučila regulirati svoje emocije i ponašanja, češće će pribjegavati nasilnom ponašanju u rješavanju sukoba i problema.
Djeca koja su zlostavljana, imaju negativan unutarnji radni model sebe i drugih. Zlostavljana djeca se ne osjećaju vrijednima ljubavi pa u nasilju mogu pronaći svoju vrijednost, osjećajući moć nad drugom osobom i umanjujući njezinu vrijednost. Neka istraživanja pokazuju da prijateljski odnosi djece i mladih, jednim dijelom ovise o privrženosti koju su stekli u najranijoj dobi s roditeljem, no rani razvoj nesigurne privrženosti ne mora nužno značiti da mladi u svojim odnosima s prijateljima i ljubavnim partnerima ne mogu razviti sigurnu privrženost. |
| Sažetak (engleski) | Theory of attachment emphasize matter of early and close relationship between mother and child for his own good through his childhood and later in juvenility. Further more, this is necessary for developing a safe attachment which is a result of a parents support, love and care, attention and proctecttion they are providing to a child, and communication between parents and child. Study showed us that violent behaviour is associated with parents relationship with child or juvenile. Without developed safe attachment with parents or at least one parent, children are often tend to violent behaviour with other children or people surround by them. Violent behaviour by definition is a solving problems and conflicts with aggressivness which can be associated with previous early relationship between child and parent. Children who haven't learn how to control their emotion are often tend to solve their problems in violent way.
Abused children have negative point of view of themselves and others. They dont feel that they are worth of love so in violence are gonna try to find their value, feeling the power among other person and downsize their value. Some researches tell us that social skills of a child and juvenile in one part depends of attachment which they developed in their early childhood with parent, although it's not nessecarily that early unsafe attachment will have effect on their future relationship with their friends or love partner or they will not be able to develop a safe attachment. |
